Category: Videos

how much does happiness cost?

How Much Does Happiness Cost?

Most people think of happiness as the passive reward one gets for doing something right or getting one’s way. But happiness is in fact one of your fundamental responsibilities to the world. If you want to make a positive impact on this earth, then start with actively pursuing happiness–not as a byproduct of your other worldly or spiritual goals, but… Read more →

is astrology useful?

Is Astrology Useful? (Solar Eclipse Special)

Many believe that the solar eclipse that’s ongoing today (Aug 21) has been affecting both the world affairs and individual lives in creating chaos, conflicts and disharmony. Personally I’ve had a turbulent week emotionally and energetically. When I mentioned it to a friend, she immediately went, “oh, it’s because of the solar eclipse!”. Is it? When things don’t go our… Read more →

Want to be a better you? Analyze less, love more

Want to Be A Better You? Analyze Less, Love More

Have you ever taken an online personality test? Or believed that you have some inconvenient idiosyncrasies because of a childhood trauma? We live in a world that worships analysis. We like to analyze, evaluate, classify and probe into our own psyche, behaviors, emotions and habits, in the name of “self improvement”. And we like to do this to others even… Read more →

are you afraid of freedom?

Are You Afraid of Freedom?

Many claim they want more freedom. But few are actually able to handle real freedom. The truth is whatever constraints and limitations we have in life also provide security, predictability and comfort. Most people would rather have that…than freedom. Though it may seem otherwise, what’s really stopping you from having more freedom is not external constraints. But rather, internal alignment.… Read more →

30 day gratitude gym

30 Day Gratitude Gym

If you want to stay fit physically, you should go to the gym and exercise regularly. If you want to stay fit spiritually, you should go to the gym also– to the gratitude gym. Gratitude is a powerful state of being. It expands your existence, opens your heart, lifts your spirit, and makes you an all-around cool person. It also… Read more →

Why you haven't found the one

Why You Haven’t Found “The One”

Lots of my readers ask me when they will find “the one”. Recently I got this message from a lovely person: “I want to meet a love partner, but it just doesn’t seem to come my way yet. Mind you I am not desperate. But I have a lot of capacity for love. I don’t know where to direct it except… Read more →

How long will it take you to get enlightened

How Long Will It Take You to Get Enlightened?

The other day I got an email from a reader who’s going through her version of inner purgatory. “How can one get through the day when everything feels so heavy and when months and months pass by and there is no relief in sight?” She asked. “How can one trust that a better life is out there, that a better… Read more →

what is ego - Natasha Che

What is Ego?

“Ego” is the scapegoat word that some people blame every undesirable human quality on. It’s a concept that, more often than not, masks the lack of clarity in awareness, rather than helping to create constructive internal change.   In this video, I talk about what ego is — the part of your consciousness that is programmed to preserve the most recent version… Read more →

how to find your purpose, Natasha Che

How to Find Your Purpose in Life

A common question readers ask me is “How do I find my purpose?” Just this week, someone emailed me and said, “Even though I trust the universe for finding my way. I still question myself so much about how, where, and when. What do I do?” Before we talk about what your mission is, I want to ask you this… Read more →

How to Make People Understand “the Real You”

Do you feel like others don’t understand you? Are you frustrated for not being seen? Welcome to the club. We all long to be seen, and feel bad when it doesn’t happen. Do you know why they don’t see you? It’s simple. You’re HIDING. It’s not them. It’s you. Before you say, “But…”, watch the video. I’ll explain what I mean, and… Read more →

is your self improvement a waste of time

Is Your Self Improvement Effort A Waste of Time?

Is “working on yourself” working for you? A reader who’s going through a tough period in her personal transformation asked for help. She felt “as if everything I’ve ever worked for internally and spiritually has been efforts for nothing at all”. Sound familiar? Then watch the video. In this video, I talk about–obviously–whether “working on yourself” is a useful pursuit. Hint:… Read more →

how to get the person you love back

How to Get the Person You Love Back

↑ That’s a trick title. Gotcha! April fools! Yay! But sweetheart, what make you think it’s a good idea to get them back? In this video, I answer a million-dollar relationship question that’s as old as humanity itself, and that has recently manifested itself in my email inbox as a reader request. I talk about a common relationship pattern of many empathic… Read more →

What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do with Your Life

How do you find your life’s calling? The fantasy: You’re struck by lightning one day and promptly realize what your purpose on earth is, aka, that “one thing”. You go do that one thing, you succeed, and you are happy ever after. The reality: You have some inspirations here and there. You’re not sure what to do. You follow false promises… Read more →

What to Do When You are in the Gutter of Awakening

If you’ve been through any major internal awakening/ transformation in your life, you would know that this is rarely a comfortable process, and oftentimes downright painful. I recently received a very articulate email from an amazing person who is experiencing such a transformation. In this video I’ll read you part of what she wrote, because I feel many of you who read my… Read more →

A Different Way to Look at Pain

Wherever there is life, there is pain. If you find that depressing, you’re missing the point of pain. Nobody likes pain. Yet if you spend any time living at all, pain will be as inevitable as the next Christmas. Instead of seeing it as your archenemy in life, how about trying a different perspective? In this video, I explain why… Read more →