Tag: happiness

true voyage with natasha che

Your Relationship(s) Stopped Working? Congratulations! Ep 10

I’m sure you’ve noticed…you behave differently around different people. Each relationship of yours fulfill specific psychological and energetic needs for you and the other person. There’re implicit contracts we have with everyone in our life—most time we’re not aware of it—regarding what we give and what we receive in the relationship. That’s why most relationship dynamics are quite stylized— we… Read more →

Don’t You Dare Stop Being Judgmental

For most people, life is an inner war on a daily basis, from the smallest logistics…need to get out of bed, oh no!…to the paradigm-altering life decisions that you’re too afraid to make. There’s a firmly established command-and-judge program installed in almost everyone, to get the human self behave in such ways that the ego gets what it wants. These… Read more →

Be a committed partner to your pain

Be A Committed Partner To Your Pain

For the light of your consciousness to illuminate the world, For you to become the healing presence you came to this planet to be, first you have to BE HERE. That sounds plain and simple. But for many energetically sensitive beings walking the path of liberation and authenticity, we are never fully “here”. Because we feel so much and the… Read more →

how much does happiness cost?

How Much Does Happiness Cost?

Most people think of happiness as the passive reward one gets for doing something right or getting one’s way. But happiness is in fact one of your fundamental responsibilities to the world. If you want to make a positive impact on this earth, then start with actively pursuing happiness–not as a byproduct of your other worldly or spiritual goals, but… Read more →

is astrology useful?

Is Astrology Useful? (Solar Eclipse Special)

Many believe that the solar eclipse that’s ongoing today (Aug 21) has been affecting both the world affairs and individual lives in creating chaos, conflicts and disharmony. Personally I’ve had a turbulent week emotionally and energetically. When I mentioned it to a friend, she immediately went, “oh, it’s because of the solar eclipse!”. Is it? When things don’t go our… Read more →

Want to be a better you? Analyze less, love more

Want to Be A Better You? Analyze Less, Love More

Have you ever taken an online personality test? Or believed that you have some inconvenient idiosyncrasies because of a childhood trauma? We live in a world that worships analysis. We like to analyze, evaluate, classify and probe into our own psyche, behaviors, emotions and habits, in the name of “self improvement”. And we like to do this to others even… Read more →

are you afraid of freedom?

Are You Afraid of Freedom?

Many claim they want more freedom. But few are actually able to handle real freedom. The truth is whatever constraints and limitations we have in life also provide security, predictability and comfort. Most people would rather have that…than freedom. Though it may seem otherwise, what’s really stopping you from having more freedom is not external constraints. But rather, internal alignment.… Read more →

30 day gratitude gym

30 Day Gratitude Gym

If you want to stay fit physically, you should go to the gym and exercise regularly. If you want to stay fit spiritually, you should go to the gym also– to the gratitude gym. Gratitude is a powerful state of being. It expands your existence, opens your heart, lifts your spirit, and makes you an all-around cool person. It also… Read more →

Why you haven't found the one

Why You Haven’t Found “The One”

Lots of my readers ask me when they will find “the one”. Recently I got this message from a lovely person: “I want to meet a love partner, but it just doesn’t seem to come my way yet. Mind you I am not desperate. But I have a lot of capacity for love. I don’t know where to direct it except… Read more →

How long will it take you to get enlightened

How Long Will It Take You to Get Enlightened?

The other day I got an email from a reader who’s going through her version of inner purgatory. “How can one get through the day when everything feels so heavy and when months and months pass by and there is no relief in sight?” She asked. “How can one trust that a better life is out there, that a better… Read more →

what is ego - Natasha Che

What is Ego?

“Ego” is the scapegoat word that some people blame every undesirable human quality on. It’s a concept that, more often than not, masks the lack of clarity in awareness, rather than helping to create constructive internal change.   In this video, I talk about what ego is — the part of your consciousness that is programmed to preserve the most recent version… Read more →

Why You Lost the People You Loved

Why You Lost the People You Loved

If you’ve ever lost anyone you loved—to a breakup, a divorce, an illness, a death—you probably wondered, in the depth of those sleepless nights when you were engrossed in pain and enraged against the Universe…what’s the point?   No matter whose “fault” it was– yours, theirs, God’s, and no matter how much the outcome could be justified, your pain is… Read more →

How to Make People Understand “the Real You”

Do you feel like others don’t understand you? Are you frustrated for not being seen? Welcome to the club. We all long to be seen, and feel bad when it doesn’t happen. Do you know why they don’t see you? It’s simple. You’re HIDING. It’s not them. It’s you. Before you say, “But…”, watch the video. I’ll explain what I mean, and… Read more →

is your self improvement a waste of time

Is Your Self Improvement Effort A Waste of Time?

Is “working on yourself” working for you? A reader who’s going through a tough period in her personal transformation asked for help. She felt “as if everything I’ve ever worked for internally and spiritually has been efforts for nothing at all”. Sound familiar? Then watch the video. In this video, I talk about–obviously–whether “working on yourself” is a useful pursuit. Hint:… Read more →

how to get the person you love back

How to Get the Person You Love Back

↑ That’s a trick title. Gotcha! April fools! Yay! But sweetheart, what make you think it’s a good idea to get them back? In this video, I answer a million-dollar relationship question that’s as old as humanity itself, and that has recently manifested itself in my email inbox as a reader request. I talk about a common relationship pattern of many empathic… Read more →